Posts
Message by Pastor Kunle Osunkunle
(President of Singles Fellowship, The Fountain of Life Church)
Wanting to love and to be loved is a normal part of life. This is because we are created by God in His image. So, we are wired for love. The concept of love in the world is totally different from that of God’s Kingdom.
(President of Singles Fellowship, The Fountain of Life Church)
How can you
differentiate between the instant attraction and feeling from true love? Is it
all about what I see with my eyes or is there more?
In order to build a successful relationship and a marriage that is heaven on earth you must be able to differentiate between LOVE and INFATUATION, so how do you do this?
In order to build a successful relationship and a marriage that is heaven on earth you must be able to differentiate between LOVE and INFATUATION, so how do you do this?
Love is not a feeling
you feel when you feel a feeling you have never felt before. Love is a
deliberate choice, a conscious decision you make with total commitment and
responsibility towards others.
Research shows that 55% of Christian Singles believe in "love at first sight". Perhaps, this is due to the perverted definitions that Hollywood, Bollywood & Nollywood have given to love which form the basis of our natural instinct for love. Thus, at every opportunity of seeing a dazzling, irresistible, pretty lady or a handsome man, we start to fantasize and momentarily lose control of our mind.
Research shows that 55% of Christian Singles believe in "love at first sight". Perhaps, this is due to the perverted definitions that Hollywood, Bollywood & Nollywood have given to love which form the basis of our natural instinct for love. Thus, at every opportunity of seeing a dazzling, irresistible, pretty lady or a handsome man, we start to fantasize and momentarily lose control of our mind.
Wanting to love and to be loved is a normal part of life. This is because we are created by God in His image. So, we are wired for love. The concept of love in the world is totally different from that of God’s Kingdom.
It may be love at first
sight in the world’s view; it is not in God’s Kingdom. If all you see is all
you see, then you are blind. You need to see beyond your natural/physical sight
before you decide on love. Thus, it’s always a good idea to take a second look
because the first look may be subtly deceptive.
Whenever you make a
decision based on what is fleeting which has the ability to fade away, you will
have to deal with the bad consequences thereafter.
Love at first sight is
only possible if both partners are in God’s glory spirit, soul and body as
evident between Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden before the fall of man.
